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History as this woman sees it. The serious, the kitsch, the opinionated. Companion to http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/
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Domestic Violence Is Sexy | BlogHer

Domestic Violence Is Sexy | BlogHer | Herstory | Scoop.it
Why do celebrities and victims of domestic violence like Rihanna continue to glamorize abuse?

 

Why is the media making domestic violence sexy? Because we are letting them.

They’re using the pictures of a leather-clad Rihanna bumping and grinding on stage, not the pictures where her face is torn up and bruised. If we continue to let these celebrities parade their choices in front of us, then we become immune to the truth about domestic violence.

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Rula Lenska: How dare Dennis says it's MY fault he hit me

Rula Lenska: How dare Dennis says it's MY fault he hit me | Herstory | Scoop.it
Dennis Waterman caused outrage this week by claiming his ex-wife provoked him into hitting her - because she always won their arguments.

 

Abuse is abuse!

 

Good for her for speaking out!

 

‘If I have to apologise for being a strong, intelligent woman then what does that mean for any woman? It is utterly irresponsible.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2119530/Rula-Lenska-How-dare-Dennis-says-MY-fault-hit-me.html#ixzz1q1sFXZ2L

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Shit Men Say to Men Who Say Shit to Women on the Street

"Shit Men Say to Men Who Say Shit to Women on the Street" was inspired by International Anti-Street Harassment Week. It was created by a group of women and m...
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Moroccan Protesters Demand Rape Law Reform

Moroccan activists have stepped up pressure to scrap laws that allow rapists to marry their victims after a 16 year old killed herself. Amina Filali drank ra...
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Penile Code Avenger: The Holidays For Separated Domestic Violence Families

Penile Code Avenger: The Holidays For Separated Domestic Violence Families | Herstory | Scoop.it

"The holidays are here. For those of us who have survived domestic violence and share children from that partnership, this is an especially trying time.

 

Forgetting, for now the increased financial difficulties of travel, holiday gift giving costs and child support, there's the very real problem of visitation times themselves."

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It was just a few slaps. That’s OK then?

Heard today, the actor who admitted to slapping his ex-wife. "I couldn't handle the fact she was a strong woman," he said.

The ex-wife said she wasn't a beaten wife, just a few slaps because she was difficult to live with. Hello?

No-one should have the right to hit another person, or animal. That's just wrong.

She's not in a situation where she fears for her life, she got out, or he got out, don't know that detail. Yet, she still somehow feels partly to blame. It takes courage to stand up, go the whole way.

 

 

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Wisconsin Lawmaker Says Women Should Stay in Abusive Marriages

Wisconsin Lawmaker Says Women Should Stay in Abusive Marriages | Herstory | Scoop.it
In Wisconsin -- yes, the same state where lawmakers have introduced a bill penalizing single mothers for being unmarried -- a Republican state representative has come out against divorce for any reason -- even domestic abuse.
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Penile Code Avenger: Skating On Thin Ice

Penile Code Avenger: Skating On Thin Ice | Herstory | Scoop.it

"After a traumatic event, how you see things changes. Quite literally.

 

When you survive domestic violence, you often aren't allowed this fact of life. Recognizing or acknowledging to others how you've been affected by the trauma(s) is a "luxury" you can't afford because the perceptions & projections -- along with observable deeds and actual words of other people already accuse you of not getting over things and moving on with your life. This leads you, a very fragile you who already is fearful of so many things -- including trusting yourself, to keep your mouth shut.

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Eric Eztli's Photos | Facebook

Eric Eztli's Photos | Facebook | Herstory | Scoop.it

"My rapist doesn't know he's a rapist..."

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Curated by Deanna Dahlsad
An opinionated woman obsessed with objects, entertained by ephemera, intrigued by researching, fascinated by culture & addicted to writing. The wind says my name; doesn't put an @ in front of it, so maybe you don't notice. http://www.kitsch-slapped.com
Other Topics
Crimes Against Humanity
From lone gunmen on hills to mass movements. Depressing as hell, really.
Cultural History
The roots of culture; history and pre-history.
In The Name Of God
Mainly acts done in the name of religion, but also discussions of atheism, faith, & spirituality.
Kinsanity
Let's just say I have reasons to learn more about mental health, special needs children, psychology, and the like.
Nerdy Needs
The stuff of nerdy, geeky, dreams.
Readin', 'Ritin', and (Publishing) 'Rithmetic
The meaning behind the math of the bottom line in publishing and the media. For writers, publishers, and bloggers (which are a combination of the two).
Sex Positive
Sexuality as a human right.
Visiting The Past
Travel based on grande ideas, locations, and persons of the past.
Walking On Sunshine
Stuff that makes me smile.
You Call It Obsession & Obscure; I Call It Research & Important
Links to (many of) my columns and articles.