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New Study Stresses the Importance of Affirming Mental Health Care for LGBTQ+ Kinksters

New Study Stresses the Importance of Affirming Mental Health Care for LGBTQ+ Kinksters | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

The study also describes how queer, intersectional kink practitioners felt “empowered” by their access to queer kink communities.

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Gay Men Are Getting Into Cucking

Gay Men Are Getting Into Cucking | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

Searches for "gay cuck" have jumped up 400 percent over the last year – but how does a fetish based on ideas of patriarchal ownership work in a non-heterosexual context?

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Through homoerotic art, Tom of Finland paved way for today's gay pride

Through homoerotic art, Tom of Finland paved way for today's gay pride | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

Iconic gay artist Tom of Finland was an early fighter for LGBT+ rights, preparing a generation of gay men in the 1940s and '50s to become activists who would fight for equality a decade later, the founder of the illustrator's foundation said on Thursday.

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There's a Lot More to Being a Leatherman Than You'd Expect

There's a Lot More to Being a Leatherman Than You'd Expect | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
“People have this idea about leather—they think S&M. And while S&M can be a part of leather, that’s not leather itself. Leather is a community first.”
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How Tom of Finland’s Celebratory, Sexy Visions of Gay Love Have Empowered Others for over 60 Years

How Tom of Finland’s Celebratory, Sexy Visions of Gay Love Have Empowered Others for over 60 Years | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

A new show in Detroit celebrates the artist’s campy, celebratory, erotic world of men. It’s a place where everyone just wants to have some fun.

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Bring Tom Of Finland Home With Finlayson’s New ToF “Street Style” Collection

Bring Tom Of Finland Home With Finlayson’s New ToF “Street Style” Collection | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
The Finnish have complicated relationship with homoerotic artist Tom of Finland. For years Touko Valio Laaksonen was something of an embarrassment with his dirty pictures. But as queer culture has moved to the mainstream, and an international audience has become obsessed with Laaksonen, the conservative Eastern European nation has thawed. His home and haunts are …
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A (Mostly) Gay Guide To Folsom Street Fair Weekend Parties

A (Mostly) Gay Guide To Folsom Street Fair Weekend Parties | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
A brief guide to the goings-on for these high holidays for the gay segment of Folsom Street Fair fans.
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This Gay, Muslim SoCal Native Is Busting Boundaries in the Leather Community

This Gay, Muslim SoCal Native Is Busting Boundaries in the Leather Community | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
"As for the LGBT community, someone called me a terrorist on Grindr."
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Launch of Leatherpedia.org

Launch of Leatherpedia.org | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
Recently, former International Mr. Leather Patrick Smith announced the launch of leatherpedia.org, a new online wiki-based encyclopedia for the leather community. The site is collaborative, which means anyone can create or edit encyclopedia entries, just like Wikipedia. “This is a resource I would have killed for when I first started out in the community.” Smith …
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‘Puppy play’ and mental health in the queer community

‘Puppy play’ and mental health in the queer community | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

THE core rule of puppy play is that there are no rules. Consent must be omnipresent however one’s sexuality, gender, or proclivities in the bedroom have no bearing on how one chooses to adopt a pup persona and engage in the subculture.


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Despite its growing prevalence in queer communities around the world, puppy play is still shrouded in misconception and stigma.
Some deride it as akin to bestiality, others regard it with a mild ‘sex panic’ that would sit comfortably in the 1950s, and many have never heard of it. But for those who don fake dog ears, knee pads, and a tail, puppy play is not only an entirely safe and consensual form of self-expression – it also alleviates existing mental health issues such as stress, anxiety, and depression.

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PHOTOS: Winter Solstice Ball

PHOTOS: Winter Solstice Ball | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

D.C. Leather Pride and the Imperial Court of Washington hosted the second annual Winter Solstice Ball at the D.C. Eagle on Saturday. Proceeds from the event were slated to go to the Wanda Alston House. Winter Solstice Ball, gay news, Washington Blade (Washington Blade photos by Daniel Truitt)

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Tom of Finland Comes to Japan

Tom of Finland Comes to Japan | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

Out, proud, and unabashedly homoerotic, the gay artist’s iconic imagery has become an international symbol of freedom.

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VACAYA Includes the Kink Community

VACAYA Includes the Kink Community | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

As I crossed the gangway to board the Celebrity Cruises’ Summit for VACAYA’s maiden voyage this summer, the Scissor Sisters serenading over the speakers reassured me that “a kiki is a party for calming all your nerves.” I took it as welcome foreshadowing that the first large-scale LGBTQ+ travel company to launch in decades had taken the initiative to musically score my journey from the moment I boarded. Yes, h-h-honey, they were serving and working and turning out VACAYA’s inaugural kiki…

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Community Celebrates San Francisco's New Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District

Community Celebrates San Francisco's New Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it

Members of San Francisco's LGBTQ community gathered in the South of Market neighborhood to celebrate the city's new Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District.

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San Francisco poised to get 'Leather and LGBTQ District' in SOMA

San Francisco poised to get 'Leather and LGBTQ District' in SOMA | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
By unanimous vote the San Francisco Board of Supervisors Tuesday agreed to establish an LGBTQ Leather Cultural District in the city's South of Market neighborhood.
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Making gay leather parties sleazy-fun again

Making gay leather parties sleazy-fun again | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
The Mister Drummer 1979 parties celebrate classic manly fetish bars—including the Eagle on March 2—with steamy tunes and plenty of muscle.
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How "The Eagle" became one of the most recognized gay bar names

How "The Eagle" became one of the most recognized gay bar names | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
Dozens of gay bars across the U.S. — and internationally — have the word “Eagle” in their names. It’s part of a tradition that goes back decades.
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World of leather: how Tom of Finland created a legendary gay aesthetic

World of leather: how Tom of Finland created a legendary gay aesthetic | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
His subversive drawings ridiculed authority figures and inspired the look of Freddie Mercury and the Village People. A new film tells the story of Touko Laaksonen’s rise to become Europe’s kinkiest art export
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Pakistani-American From California Blazes a Gay Leather and Fetish Trail

Pakistani-American From California Blazes a Gay Leather and Fetish Trail | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
Ali Mushtaq competed this year in the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago.
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Tom of Finland: From gay icon to mainstream sensation

Tom of Finland: From gay icon to mainstream sensation | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
Long iconic and even formative for American gay society, Tom's well-endowed and sexually charged imagery is now hitting the global mainstream.
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Puppy play: Chelsea gay bar welcomes pup lifestyle

Puppy play: Chelsea gay bar welcomes pup lifestyle | #ILoveGay | Scoop.it
On the fourth Friday of each month, the first floor of The Eagle — a gay leather-themed bar in Chelsea — is crawling with puppies.
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